Understanding Functional Freeze: When You're Stuck in Survival Mode
Have you ever felt like you're just going through the motions, stuck on autopilot while life buzzes around you? This sense of disconnection and stagnation is what some refer to as a "functional freeze." It's like your inner self has hit the pause button, even though you continue to function on the surface.
What is Functional Freeze?
Functional freeze is a state where you're seemingly able to manage daily tasks, yet internally, you're feeling numb or detached. It's a survival mechanism, often a response to stress or trauma, where you might feel disconnected from your emotions or surroundings. Unlike the dramatic fight-or-flight response, functional freeze is more subtle, leading you to carry on with life while feeling emotionally 'frozen.'’
Signs You Might Be Experiencing Functional Freeze
Behaviors: You might notice that you're mechanically completing tasks without being truly engaged. Maybe you're getting work done, but it feels robotic. Or perhaps you're listening to a friend talk without really hearing them. It's like you're present but not fully there.
Thoughts: Your inner dialogue might be on mute, or you could be having repetitive thoughts that seem stuck in a loop. Decision-making feels harder, and you might find yourself aimlessly scrolling through social media without really absorbing anything.
Feelings: You could be feeling a pervasive sense of numbness, where joys and sorrows don't hit as deeply as they used to. It's not that you don't care, but rather that your emotional responses feel blunted.
Everyday Examples of Functional Freeze
You wake up in the morning and rush to get ready, maybe drinking some coffee but skipping breakfast
You're watching your favorite show, but you can't seem to laugh at the jokes like you used to.
You make it through a busy workday, but at the end, you can't recall the details of what you did.
You're having dinner with family, and while you're physically at the table, your mind feels miles away.
You realize you're smiling and nodding in a conversation, but you're not really processing the words.
You're maintaining your routine – gym, work, groceries – but it all feels meaningless, like you're just ticking boxes.
What Can You Do About It?
Firstly, know that you're not alone. Many people experience functional freeze at some point in their lives. It's a sign that your mind is asking for a timeout, a chance to process and heal. Here are a few steps you can take:
1. Acknowledge Your Feelings: Give yourself permission to recognize this state without judgment. It's a protective response, not a personal failing.
2. Create Small, Mindful Moments: Try to introduce brief pauses in your day to connect with your senses. This could be savoring the taste of your coffee or feeling the texture of your clothes. You could also go outside and sit in nature, engaging in a non-judgemental observation of the environment with all your senses.
3. Seek Connection: Reach out to a trusted friend or family member. Sometimes, just sharing your experience can lighten the load.
4. Gentle Movement: Engage in activities like stretching, walking, or yoga. Movement can help to 'thaw' the freeze and reconnect you with your body.
5. Professional Support: If the freeze is making it hard for you to enjoy life, it may be helpful to talk to a professional. Counseling can provide a safe space to explore these feelings and start the journey back to feeling more like yourself.
At our practice, we understand that reaching out for help can be challenging, especially when you're feeling stuck. We're here to support you with compassion and without judgment. Remember, taking the first step toward healing is a sign of strength, not weakness. Whether it's with us or another support system, we encourage you to prioritize your well-being.
Functional freeze doesn't have to be a permanent state. With the right support and strategies, you can begin to melt the ice and rediscover the warmth of engaging fully with your life.
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